From there, they advise couples to carefully figure out good angles, use tons of lube, and communicate openly and often. Sexual health gurus tell people pursuing anal sex to wait until the receiving partner is relaxed and take things slowly at first, avoiding the pain of pushing past a tight sphincter. Taut and thin-skinned, short and mildly curved, dry and insensitive, rectums often can't tolerate the friction and force of deep, fast penetration. Generally, asses are trickier than vaginas. But real pros can usually avoid those potential pitfalls and go strong for years on end because they do more pre-anal prep than the average civilian diving into butt stuff, and (more importantly) because they tend to have almost supernaturally resilient rectums. Common wisdom about anal suggests that, given the intense and frequent pressure these queens put on their posteriors, many of their careers ought to be limited by pain, strain, and the risk of short- or long-term injuries.
